Tuesday, February 28, 2006
Monday, February 20, 2006
幫忙
"幫忙"
在香港這片地方
這兩個字已變得越來越生疏
大抵香港人怕吃虧已成商標
已被標籤化
我怎樣看這兩個字呢?
或許是父母從小的教導
我喜愛幫人
縱然我從小便把爸媽吃虧的過程看在眼裡
我還是熱心的
看到有些人幹著口不對心的幫忙
為了豎立自己形象的幫忙
好像哪些為了認識女孩子而去做義工的
我會嗤之以鼻
另外一些人會整天算計著幫忙後所隨之而來的後果
怕承擔心理上或身理上的負擔
還侃侃而談只是怕後果會令雙方過意不去
朋友!那是怕吃虧啊!
不要那找借口啊!
幫忙是出於一片心
無論帶來的後果
是好?
是壞?
幫忙是無私的
是單方面付出的
不去計較後果的
縱是有也願意去承擔的
那容我們去計算好壞
在我看來
你比前者
更
可
恥
!
在香港這片地方
這兩個字已變得越來越生疏
大抵香港人怕吃虧已成商標
已被標籤化
我怎樣看這兩個字呢?
或許是父母從小的教導
我喜愛幫人
縱然我從小便把爸媽吃虧的過程看在眼裡
我還是熱心的
看到有些人幹著口不對心的幫忙
為了豎立自己形象的幫忙
好像哪些為了認識女孩子而去做義工的
我會嗤之以鼻
另外一些人會整天算計著幫忙後所隨之而來的後果
怕承擔心理上或身理上的負擔
還侃侃而談只是怕後果會令雙方過意不去
朋友!那是怕吃虧啊!
不要那找借口啊!
幫忙是出於一片心
無論帶來的後果
是好?
是壞?
幫忙是無私的
是單方面付出的
不去計較後果的
縱是有也願意去承擔的
那容我們去計算好壞
在我看來
你比前者
更
可
恥
!
Sunday, February 19, 2006
Monday, February 13, 2006
Tuesday, February 07, 2006
Friday, February 03, 2006
Hi!
Hi,
I seldom receive call from your mum. But one day, she told me a long story;
NO EMPATHY, NO FEELINGS...with You. But your mum does. There is a big difference in real feelings and emotions and the adrenalin rush of you and him...which is the only thing You "feel". Since it's apples and oranges...of course he made you mad. I thinks, You love him very much. since everyone are the same in my view.
I read in a book, Emotional Resilience, that if you are in a relationship with someone...friendship or romance, and one or the other of you feels hurt, those feelings are real and they are YOUR feelings. So they would be respected by one who is mature and cares about you. They will want to work with you to fix that hurt, and atone so the relationship remains healthy and can move forward unencombered. ...Problem is it does not work with you adn him. You both are emotional toddlers posing as adults. A toddler has not yet learned adult skills at their age. For a toddler there is hope...but there is no hope for you and him.
Dont you undertsand? Care your mum and your family!
I seldom receive call from your mum. But one day, she told me a long story;
NO EMPATHY, NO FEELINGS...with You. But your mum does. There is a big difference in real feelings and emotions and the adrenalin rush of you and him...which is the only thing You "feel". Since it's apples and oranges...of course he made you mad. I thinks, You love him very much. since everyone are the same in my view.
I read in a book, Emotional Resilience, that if you are in a relationship with someone...friendship or romance, and one or the other of you feels hurt, those feelings are real and they are YOUR feelings. So they would be respected by one who is mature and cares about you. They will want to work with you to fix that hurt, and atone so the relationship remains healthy and can move forward unencombered. ...Problem is it does not work with you adn him. You both are emotional toddlers posing as adults. A toddler has not yet learned adult skills at their age. For a toddler there is hope...but there is no hope for you and him.
Dont you undertsand? Care your mum and your family!
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